Showing posts with label Islam and women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Islam and women. Show all posts

Friday, 13 July 2018

Working Women: Problems and Difficulties

There are many problems and difficulties facing working women, including the following:


  • The difficulty of combining work and household chores.
  • Inappropriate workplace, housing, and transportation.
  • Lack of nurseries and kindergartens in or near the facilities or residential areas, or lack of affordable childcare that is not commensurate with women's income.
  • Indecent behaviors by males, whether at work or on the way to and from work, or harassment of women workers during night shifts or household chores (for domestic workers).
  • The harshness of working conditions for some women, especially in rural areas, whether due to natural geographical circumstances or the nature of hard physical work in agriculture, factories and others even if they are for a wage.
  • The impact of some works on the health of working mothers in some sectors, including the chemical sector.
  • Interference in the peculiarities of women in terms of shape, dress, the manner of speaking, appointments, or visits by the employer, some of the workers, or the family.
  • Fear of spinsterhood; it is an important problem that upsets many working women because of the perception of inferiority towards them that is still prevalent to this day, though it has begun subsiding at present.
  • Long working hours: Long working hours disturb working women because this leads to permanent default in family duties, due to lack of their presence and supervision of their families, especially in the early stages of childhood, where the child needs the permanent and direct care of his mother. However, overcoming this problem or minimizing its disadvantages can be done through providing nurseries and chambers of care in workplaces with reasonable prices that cover the operational needs, as well as employing trained babysitters to supervise them. Thus, women can be able to assure and observe their children from time to time, especially in cases of illness, in addition to spending times with them in times of rest or lunch. This is an important service implemented in many developed countries that care for women and family status. Unfortunately, what we observe in many hospitals and health centers or any public institution is the lack of the nurseries or childcare rooms in the workplace. Working mothers have the right to ensure a safe place where they can put and access their children regardless of the length of working hours.
  • 10-Nurseries: we hear a lot about the bad treatment of children in nurseries and its reliance on ordinary employees who find it difficult to control a large number of children only by intimidation, having the negative psychological impact on them, especially if they are too young.

Also, the number of children, their age and needs for care cause problems and constraints for working women, such as the enduring sense of dereliction and guilt towards her children due to her absence, along with other problems such as the inability to provide them with the affordable domestic servants due to the poor financial condition. If we conduct field studies on the reasons of sudden absence of women at work, we would find that most of them are limited to childhood illness and servants delusion, or because working women do not trust them.

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source: islamicstudies.islammessage.com

Tuesday, 3 July 2018

Lowering the Gaze and Protecting Marriage Life

"lowering the gaze" is a divine order for both sexes, contemplate the following verse in Surat Al Noor:


"‏‏قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ ذَلِكَ أَزْكَى لَهُمْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ*وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا" (النور: 30)

Interpretation: "Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do." (24:30)


Did you notice that Allah ordered men to lower their gaze on seeing what is illegal to look at and save their private parts, and He ordered women as well to do the same thing?

Did you notice that order of lowering the gaze was mentioned before the order of protecting the private parts; eyes are a gate of the heart, and a window of the soul. It was narrated that the Prophet, peace is upon him, said: "...The Zina of the eye is the (lustful) look ... the heart yearns and desires and the private parts approve all that or disapprove it." [Sahih Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

Lowering the gaze is a blessing


Some people regard this command as a difficult task, especially in a world dominated by images as our world today, but the truth is that it is a great blessing.

It's a great blessing to live life with all ambition, work, and transactions, without absorbing these scenes around you or allowing them to invade your heart and soul, or manipulate your desire and feelings.

It's a great blessing to have an internal safety valve that prevents you from indulging your heart in illegal scenes.

It's a great blessing to have a life partner that fills your eyes and pleases your heart.

All these blessings are received when you lower your gaze. No one stares at prohibited things and can feel such happiness.

Lowering the gaze protect you from being insatiable. It does not mean to live isolated and does not look at the way, as portrayed by some, rather it is just as our Prophet, peace be upon him, said: "Do not give a second look" (Hasan according to Al-Albani)

The sinful action intended here is starting to prohibited images, releasing of imagination, and allowing what you saw to manipulate your mind and heart.



Comparison issue



When such images gather in your imagination and mind, you unconsciously begin to compare your spouse too many images stuck in your imagination that formed what looks like the ideal model! Indeed, it's an injustice to compare your spouse to a world of misleading images, which are often fabricated, or subject to the direction, modification, and editing. Even if they are real, your brain captures them, therefore, your heart begins to weave imaginary feelings that drive you to blind love.




source: islamicstudies.islammessage.com